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Newest Trends in New Jersey Weddings!

Fri, 09 May 2008 14:07:51 PDT

Here are five new trends for your New Jersey Wedding!

Couples are looking for elegant dinners, however they no longer want to make their guests sit through a four hour meal with dancing in between each course. It is trendier to eat through the entire meal and then party!
Couples are looking for fresh new ideas! Try an ooh-aah moment...have your name up in Lights! Discover how your favorite photo files can be customized into a tasteful orbital montage/Orb Theater Show for your NJ wedding day! Great for a Bar Mitzvah, Bat Mitzvah, Corporate Event or Party!
Try a global theme like a Mororccan Tent or a glamourous period theme like a 1930's Busby Berkeley and hang jewels, crystals and flowers from the wedding arch.
Group sofas, chairs and coffee tables to lounge around on in the reception area for guests to get away from music that is too loud and from assigned table seating!
Green weddings are also the rage. Get ideas from our green wedding ideas blog entry.

Secrets for a Happy Marriage

Fri, 09 May 2008 07:46:55 PDT

Long-lasting, happy marriages have great communication. Irreconcilable differences are normal. Be open to come to terms with them, instead of trying to resolve the unresolvable. A happy marriage is based on deep friendship, knowing each other well, having mutual respect, knowing when it makes sense to try to work out an issue, and knowing when it is not solvable in that moment.

Be nice to your partner! Make small gestures, and make them often. The little things matter!

Active listening, which involves paraphrasing, validating, affirming your spouse's feedback, may help you get through some conflicts in a less destructive way. Learn how to identify issues that must be resolved, that can be fruitfully discussed. Then learn to live with the rest. All you do is waste your breath and get angry when you want your partner to change. You're better off not trying to change him or her. Learn to work around them. Commit to staying together, even though this is something you may not like.

A long-lasting, happy marriage is about knowing your partner, being supportive, and being nice. Research shows that for every one negative thing you do, there must be five positive things that balance it out. So balance the negatives with many positives. Do nice things often. Especially when it's harder to be nice when the heat is on!

In happy marriages, couples naturally use humor, which helps diffuse the escalating heat. Make light of things!

Involvement of the Children at your New Jersey Wedding

Wed, 07 May 2008 18:57:23 PDT

There are several ways to involve the children in your wedding ceremony. You can have your children serve as attendants, flower girls and ring bearers if they are young. If they are older, they can do a reading, a special passage or a blessing. A unity candle ceremony or a sand ceremony involving the immediate family members can be a beautiful way to customize your New Jersey wedding ceremony to include your children in the wedding.

Tips on your New Jersey Bridesmaids' Luncheon

Wed, 07 May 2008 09:41:00 PDT

Many brides host a bridesmaids' luncheon to thank their friends & family for all their support and to have some last-minute bonding. Usually on the casual side, the luncheon is an opportunity to swap stories and for the bride to present each bridesmaid with a bridesmaid gift. The bridesmaids' luncheon is usually held a day or two before the wedding. Think intimate and invite girls only: your maid of honor, bridesmaids, and flower girl. Some brides also include mothers, grandmothers, and other female family members. No invitations are necessary. Host your luncheon in an elegant, convenient setting or in a place that has special significance for all of you. You may want to consider an outdoor beach picnic or park party if you prefer something casual. Plan a menu of traditional treats like finger sandwiches, mini pastries and mints. Also, a Caesar salad, bagels and fruit, and even sushi can work. The emphasis of the luncheon is about enjoying each other's company. Now is also the time to give your bridesmaids their gifts. You can place the gifts at each bridesmaid's place setting, or personally hand out the gifts. Be sure to thank each of them with a handwritten note.

BestWeddingNJ

Tue, 06 May 2008 13:05:29 PDT

Helpful tips for pulling together a sophisticated and successful outdoor New Jersey wedding event.

Choose a date and a theme. Whether you're choosing to host a casual beach wedding party or a more sophisticated fete, choosing a date and a theme is the first and most important step. When choosing a date, make sure your wedding date won't be during some big sporting event, or the guys won't be happy about attending.
Prepare well in advance. Know exactly what you want to do and have an idea of how many guests are coming. If you are not used not used to planning an event, buy wedding planning software to help you organize.
Rent your party equipment. If you will be needing tables, chairs and a tent rental, be sure to rent them in advance.
Enlist help. Whether it's your best friend or a family member, engage someone who enjoys helping out to assist you in preparing for your New Jersey wedding party.
Prepare for the unexpected. More or less wedding guests may show up than anticipated or the weather may be bad, so prepare some extra food and have an indoor plan just in case.
Keep a sense of humor. Hosting a wedding party should be fun! Keep a positive attitude and know that everything may not go perfectly in your eyes.

New Jersey Beach Wedding Theme Ideas

Wed, 09 Apr 2008 09:05:24 PDT

If you decide to say "I do" in the sand, here are some new jersy beach wedding ideas to make your seaside New Jersey wedding reception one to remember:

Starfish, sand dollars and colorful shells can be incorporated into your wedding invitations, in your wedding cake design and wedding flowers.

Accessorize your wedding gown with simple pearls to bring in your New Jersey beach wedding theme.

Arrange tea lights in glass candle holders with layers of pale-colored sea glass, shells and sand around the candles.

Find beach wedding favors like starfish soaps.

Keep your wedding guests hydrated and happy with bottles of water with customized wedding labels.

Here Comes the Bride

Mon, 31 Mar 2008 07:39:54 PDT

Here comes the bride...in a gorgeous hemp-silk gown! When it comes to dressing your bridal party, there are plenty of green wedding options around. You can:

go vintage (and update your look as necessary with tailoring and modern shoes and accessories)
pick clothes made from hemp, bamboo, and organic cotton or silk--or find a dressmaker who will make a one-of-a-kind item out of these sustainable fabrics (men's suits and shirts come in organic cotton as well)
borrow an elegant wedding gown from a stylish friend
buy something you will wear again and let your bridesmaids do the same.
accessorize with a unique recycled purse and/or jewelry
accentuate natural beauty with all-natural mineral makeup
donate the dresses to charity after your New Jersey wedding!

Something Green for a Green Wedding

Mon, 31 Mar 2008 07:21:44 PDT

Instead of just doing the traditional something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, now include something green to the mix!

You can also ask your wedding guests for charity donations instead of paper wrapped presents!

Also, seek out wedding reception halls that have a recycling policy. It's important to support companies that make an effort to reduce their impact on the environment!

What A Groom Can Do

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 07:40:48 PDT

It is the year 2008, and it it time that your groom receives a wedding planning to-do list. In addition to what grooms have traditionally been used to doing like: attend their bachelor party, pick-up their tuxedo, show up at the wedding, and go on the honeymoon, it is time to get your man more involved in the planning of your New Jersey wedding!
Below are a few to-dos you can add to your groom’s New Jersey wedding planning list:

Have him find out how much his parents are planning on contributing to the wedding budget

Have him to pick a few romantic honeymoon options and then present them to you.

Research New Jersey photographers and New Jersey videographers

Research New Jersey wedding bands and/or DJs

Put together a playlist of songs and a do not playlist

Choose his groomsmen and ask them to be in the bridal party

Look for wedding bands for the two of you

Draw up a guest list of his friends, colleagues as well as the relatives and friends his parents want to invite

A Wedding Photography Tip

Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:33:44 PDT

When you meet with wedding photographers and videographers ask to see a complete wedding album they have done. Many tips they will show you their "greatest hits" album! (Their best wedding photos they have ever taken from various weddings. You want to make sure that the wedding photographer you hire can consistently capture great photographs throughout the course of your special day and not just a few good ones here and there.

Essential Wedding Day Wedding Hair & Bridal Makeup Tip

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 10:43:11 PST

Many brides purchase an outfit to wear while they are getting ready the morning of the wedding. Whether you get a custom shirt that reads “Bride” or just grab something from your closet, it is essential to wear something with a zipper or buttons! After hours of getting your wedding hair & bridal makeup just right, you do not want to have to pull your shirt over your head. It will be much safer and easier to unbutton or unzip something.

Wedding Photo Tips

Fri, 01 Feb 2008 12:50:19 PST

Don't forget to watch your posture. To ensure you look elegant and naturally poised, keep your stomach comfortably tight, shoulders relaxed and neck slightly extended. For an upper arm slimming trick, keep your elbows an inch away from your body. Here's an image that's a must for your photo album! Have your photographer capture the groom's face at his first glimpse of the bride walking down the aisle. This is such a meaningful moment, and the look on his face will reflect the emotion of the day for years to come!

Be sure to also read our Wedding Photographers Article: What You Should Know Before Hiring A Wedding Photographer

Let Them Eat Cake!

Fri, 01 Feb 2008 12:26:06 PST

Are you ready to sink your teeth into a wedding day confection? Not many guests leave the reception before the wedding cake is cut! Here is some wedding cake etiquette for you to know:

The wedding cake is displayed on a beautifully decorated table, which goes in front of the main table without blocking the guests' view of the bride and groom. A decorated knife is usually placed at the table.
The wedding cake is cut after the reception lunch or dinner has been served.
The cutting of the cake is announced prior to the cutting.
The right hand of the groom goes over the right hand of the bride, while they cut the wedding cake together. The first slice is fed by the groom to his bride, after which the bride serves her new husband.
The wedding cake is then taken away by a family member, friend or the catering staff to be cut. The cutting is not done in front of the guests.
The wedding cake is then served with coffee or tea. Know that once the cake is served and eaten, your guests will start to leave.

Have your cake the way you want it! Check out our Wedding Cakes for your New Jersey wedding!

Who is having a Green Wedding in 2008?

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:34:41 PST

Who is having a Green Wedding in 2008? BestWeddingNJ.com is looking for the most creative, authentic green and organic wedding ideas to share with our New Jersey couples. It is exciting and wonderful to see more couples making a commitment of love to each other and a commitment of caring for the Earth as well!

A growing number of brides and grooms each year are seeking ways to make their big day environmentally friendly. For example, you can buy recycled gowns, donate leftover food instead of throwing it out, use recyled paper for your invitations and give live plants for your party favors that can be replanted.

GO Green and blog a description of your green wedding event and we will post your ideas to help Mother Earth!

Eat, Drink & Be Married!

Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:22:42 PST

The Ultimate Wedding Reception Ending

Its midnight, and your wedding guests have been dancing all night! Get their taste buds dancing as you send them home with a surprise midnight snack! A new wedding reception trend is to bring in an unexpected snack at the end of the night. Couples are choosing late night snacks such as pizzas, bagels and even cookies and milk to go. Top it off with the next day's newpaper. For an afternoon reception, you could hand out an assortment of flavored nuts and bottled soda. The selections for this type of surprise snack are endless. This is a perfect place for you to be creative and serve one of your own favorite comfort foods to share with your guests!

Winter Wedding Ideas

Wed, 26 Dec 2007 19:38:14 PST

Are you planning to get married this winter? Here are some wedding tips on decorating and planning your romantic winter wedding.

Décor that appeals to the senses is essential when creating a romantic winter wedding. Choose colors of rich jewel tones such as purple, forest green, and navy. Sapphire blue, ice blue or powder blue, silver and white can also be used.The added glow of candlelight will add warmth and ambiance to your ceremony and reception.

Use flowers that are already available during the winter months. Some wedding flowers to choose from are: poinsettias, roses, amaryllis, and lilies. Evergreens are popular choices for decorations while holly branches and other plants with red berries are ideal for use in wedding flower arrangements.

Winter season creative ideas for wedding centerpieces: add pine cones or holiday items, white flowers silver twigs or silver netting and silver ribbon on the cake, tables, bouquets or chairs.

Choose a new jersey wedding reception hall that has a cozy fireplace to add ambiance and warmth for your winter wedding.

Add ice sculptures during your cocktail hour and reception. An ice sculpture is always a great idea for a winter themed wedding.

In addition, consider winter food for your menu. Start off with a hot soup appetizer and include hot chocolate with your coffee service.

As for favors, use Cinnamon Apple, Pumpkin Pie and Vanilla scented candles. Spiced tea, a coffee mug or a snow globe imprinted with your name and wedding date can make a great favor.

Good luck with your upcoming New Jersey wedding. May it be a special winter wonderland wedding event!

Dealing with Wedding Stress the Spiritual Way!

Sun, 16 Dec 2007 10:31:23 PST

Diana Lynn has been uplifting the consciousness of individuals and practicing heart-centered spiritual healing since 1992. With a deep sense of compassion and commitment to Love, her mission as an Advanced Energy Healer is to serve humanity for the highest, greatest good. If you are experiencing the wedding blues from a high level of stress, take a deep breath right now and call Diana Lynn at 732-262-3037, for a private energy healing session today. She will intuitively assist you in getting in touch with your deeper core issues and guide you back into balance as you uncover new awareness. Guaranteed you will feel more peaceful and relaxed after Diana's session! You can also visit Diana Lynn at www.spiritualitysolutions.com

Soothing Your Wedding Nerves

Sun, 16 Dec 2007 10:24:00 PST

Getting married can be one of the most memorable times of your life. However it often becomes very stressful. With so many decisions to make and working with deadlines, it is easy to see how even the most well-intentioned person can become frazzled. Well, fret no more! At www.BestWeddingNJ.com we do all the research for you to ease your wedding planning! Come look through our New Jersey wedding services and wedding products. Keep stress levels to a minimum so that your special wedding day can be the joyous occasion you deserve!